We all ask "Why" questions. Jesus did, too. But it sounds
more like a cry for help than a question.
 


 

From the sixth hour until the ninth hour there was darkness
over all the land. About the ninth hour Jesus cried out with
a loud voice, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?" that is, "My God,
My God, why have You forsaken Me?"

Some of those who stood there, when they heard that, said,
"This Man is calling for Elijah!" Immediately one of them ran
and took a sponge, filled it with sour wine and put it on the
reed, and offered it to Him to drink. The rest said, "Let Him
alone; let us see if Elijah will come to save Him." 

                                                    Matthew 27:45-49 NKJV, condensed


                                      Forsaken 

Darkness makes the world seem small. It hold us in, encircles us,
restricts our movement, chills our bones. We become jumpy
and see things that aren't there. It's easy to get lost in the dark,
and feel apprehensive. We don't know who's out there or what
eyes may be watching. Darkness at night is expected. Black skies
at midday signal alarm.

Three hours after the crucifixion began, the light of the sun
disappeared and darkness descended upon Skull Hill. In a
matter of minutes, the scene changed from the typical brutal
crucifixion, to a hushed eeriness. People looked around,
appealed to each other for answers, ascribed this strange
phenomenon to the gods. Maybe even the Passover God of
the Jewish people.

Centuries later, we explain it away--it was an eclipse, simple
as that. But wouldn't that be an odd coincidence to have an
eclipse precisely when Jesus was dying! Others respond by
discussing the sins committed that day, contrasting the images
of night and day, and declaring that darkness reigns whenever
sin and evil rule the day. Then there's the possibility God was
being kind and giving Jesus some privacy while he suffered.
If that were the case, at least we know our silent God cared
and did something.

It could have been a diversionary tactic to distract the mockers.
Or a sign to the thoughtful of God's displeasure. There are
many possibilities. But here's one interesting thought to ponder:
Jesus was born at night under the light of an unusually large star;
he died during daylight hours under cover of darkness. An
extremely bright stellar object over Bethlehem guided the wise
men to Jesus. Thirty-three years later, Calvary's noonday
darkness calls those who are wise to embark on another journey.
One that promises a resurrection morning.

Around three o'clock in the afternoon as the darkness was
lifting, Jesus cried out in agony, "My God, my God, why have you
forsaken me?" To be forsaken sounds desolate and bitter. It 
feels like abandonment, like being deliberately left behind.
Coming from the lips of Jesus the word startles us.

Upon hearing the cry of Jesus, one man, on his own or at the
urging of others, sprang into action and offered Jesus a moist
sponge to cool his lips. Everyone else decided they would wait
and see. Excitement stirred. Maybe Elijah would come at last
and save him!

Traditional Christian theology teaches that God is holy and
sin is a barrier that separates us from God. Therefore as Jesus
bore our sins upon the cross, he was actually cut off. God
turned his back on Jesus. The good news is that Jesus saw the
condemning back of God so that we may see the welcoming
face of God.

There's an inexplicable mystery here, and a wonderful gift
free for the taking-- forgiveness for all those things we do to
each other that grieve the heart of God, and perpetual access
to our loving heavenly Father. We don't have to understand
or even like the theology of the cross. But this much is
fundamental. Jesus was more than an extraordinary Teacher,
more than an admirable Example, more than a radical or
gallant Hero. Jesus is our living Savior.

"My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" That's the first
line of Psalm 22 in the Old Testament. From the cross Jesus
was quoting scripture, finding sustenance therein, and possibly
would have recited the entire Psalm had he been able.

Psalm 22 starts in the lowest depth of the soul, slowly crawls
out of the hole and then stands tall with words of praise for the
holiness and faithfulness of God. Jesus felt forsaken - you bet.
Jesus was forsaken - yes. But for Jesus the cross was his main
event, his purpose for living. He was accomplishing the work
set out for him, inching his way one torturous second at a time,
to a glorious victory. "Weeping may endure for the night; but
joy comes in the morning." That's also from the Psalms.

 

Use the following questions for small groups, journaling, further
study or reflection.

 

Icebreaker: What are your most frequently asked "Why" questions?

 

How do you explain the 3 hours of darkness in the middle of
crucifixion day?
            Was it a natural or supernatural phenomenon?
            Or doesn't it make any difference to you what caused it?
            What good purposes did the darkness serve?

 

When have you felt relief because it got dark?
            When do you find darkness disconcerting?

 

What does the concept of forsaken mean to you?
            When have you felt forsaken?   Was it feelings or fact?
            How did you survive being forsaken?   Does it still impact you life?
If you can't say you were ever forsaken, what is the closest you ever
came to being abandoned or left behind to fend for yourself?

 

Was Jesus justified in asking God why God had forsaken him?
            What emotions are behind such a question?

 

Read Psalms 22. Here's a sampling of some of the despairing phrases:
"Why are You so far from helping me? . . I cry but You do not hear . . .
I am a worm, and despised . . .they gape at me. . . I am poured out
like water, all my bones are out of joint; my heart is like melted
wax. . . my strength is dried up . ."
            Which phrases describe you when you feel your lowest?
            What other words have you used to express your anguish?

 

Psalms 22 doesn't end in despair. The writer looks up.
"But You, O Lord, do not be far from me. . . I will declare Your name,
in the midst of the assembly I will praise You. . . All the ends of the
world shall remember and turn to the Lord. . . For the kingdom
is the Lord's and He rules over the nations. . . He has done this."
            Have you ever decided to praise God even though you
                    didn't feel like it?
            If so, what happened when you refocused and looked up?

 

Interpret and react to this statement:
            "Jesus was forsaken on the cross so that we never need to be."

 

Outline your beliefs about the life, death and resurrection of Jesus.
            Fill in the blanks as best you can.
            Is it easy or difficult for you to express what the cross
                     of Jesus means to you?

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